Tired of being a good girl

This article was first published in Hey, I'm not going to womansplain feminism to the readers of Esquire! That's not happening on my watch! You're sophisticated, 21st century men with a copy of the El Bulli cookbook, a timeless pair of investment brogues and a couple of Joni Mitchell albums — for when you want to sit in your leather armchair, and have a little, noble, necessary man-cry. You've got sisters, mothers, lovers — female friends and colleagues — and you've never once gone up to any of them shouting, "Blimey! You don't get many of those to the pahnd!

Kindness is an inherent gift that we could all use more of. People-pleasers use being nice to get what they want. They need to swallow their rage and sugarcoat their fury. They need to bend over backwards while others trespass their boundaries. They need to let others treat them like shit while they act compliant. Manners, please.

No moments of weirdness or blackout bragging about how I pissed the bed and still got laid lol remember that? What gives? I had to pause and really consider this for a while. Her description of the whole thing seemed to closely match their nice-guy predicaments. She did everything she was supposed to, right down to the casual day heels, and was still finding herself second-dateless.

Queen Ure Okezie. Sigh , strange thoughts on my mind. Last born, only girl, never lacked anything, got born again at 10 in FGGC Owerri, grew up with very strong Christian values.