When thinking about suggesting a FWB relationship with someone, choose someone with the following attributes:. Regardless of what their profile states, be clear about the fact that you are not looking for a committed relationship. Are you interested in meeting for coffee sometime? You may have met someone at a bar, coffeeshop, diner, or bookstore and have hung out a few times or even been physically intimate. I find you attractive and smart and I think we could have some fun together, meaning, without any drama or commitment. What do you think?